In 1988 my first book was published: Don’t: A Woman’s Word, a memoir of my childhood experience of sexual abuse. It became for a brief few months, a sensation in Canada, primarily because of an interview I did with broadcaster Peter Gzowski which was aired on CBC, the national radio network. My memoir has never [...]
I have for a long while enjoyed a serious case of pen lust. I am known to spend too much time searching pen sites for the next pen, and then make extensive wish lists as I drool on the computer keyboard. So not pretty. Contrary to what some folks say: a pen is a pen [...]
One of the most challenging things you will encounter as you write your personal stories is the need to tell the truth. Most of us live our lives with so-called acceptable versions of the truth, truths stripped of as much pain as possible, truth that is at best faint, at its worst no where near [...]
Everyone who writes or wants to write needs to carry a notebook and pen. It doesn’t matter whether you write notes to yourself, grocery lists or ideas–you need a notebook with you at all times. Ideas can be flighty, if you don’t capture them when they land, they’ll be gone, too often for good. You [...]
To write, you need so very little. You need an honest heart. And some paper. – Heather Sellers, Page After Page Writing, as too few of us seem to remember (I include myself in this), is first of all a practice. Something we need to do every day, like brushing our teeth. Without practice, writing [...]
The older I get the more important balance becomes. I have less room for over-indulgence in things that aren’t good for me simply because my body takes longer to recover from any badness. It’s a fact of life, but in many ways also a relief. It is relatively easy to notice when my body isn’t [...]
I have an inner troll. Some writers call this critter an inner critic, but that’s too tame a concept for what I have to contend with. My troll has an amazing repetoire of kindness, things like ‘that sucks’, ‘who do you think you are?’ ‘there’s no way anybody will read that’, and my favourite of [...]